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PROBLEMS OF MOVING
Moving experiences
Stress before the move
Culture shock
Transient family syndrome
The international person
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THE EXPATRIATE MARRIAGE
Marriage abroad
Foreign affairs
What does he really do on those business trips?
Frequent flyer family friction
Impotence and power struggles
Questions and answers aren't conversations
Wives who live in fear of their husbands
Mixed marriages and cultural confusion
Children won't save an ailing marriage
Time, care and communication
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CHILDREN ABROAD
International children
Poor little rich kids
Why expatriate children suffer at boarding school
Servants and separation
Shared custody:international tug-of-war
The empty nest
Parents and children
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STRESS AT WORK AND HOME
Coming to terms with stress
Executive hypochondria
The effects of overwork on the family
Coping with jealousy
When you just want to give up and go
The greatest stress of all
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ALL ALONE AND FAR FROM HOME
Loneliness
The drifter
Lonely working women - single
Lonely working women - married
Lonely working men
Remove those masks
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DAILY LIFE DILEMMAS
A life like any other
When party time is a nightmare
Visitors are stressful
Expatriate addictions
Compulsive eating
Compulsive spending
Fear of flying
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COPING WITH SEPARATION
People pulled apart
Long distance love
Home isn't always where the heart is
Running home to a sick parent
The "astronaut syndrome"
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DEATH AND DIVORCE
Divorce in a foreign land
Bereavement
Five types of divorce and more
To leave or not to leave?
Death on the road
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THE EXPATRIATE UNDERCLASS
The forgotten class
Filipina maids: strangers in two lands
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GOING HOME
When one partner wants to go home
Is going home the right decision?
Identity inflation, part 2
Retiring back home
Reverse cultural shock
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HAPPILY EVER AFTER
Home is where your family is
The choice is yours
Avoiding misconceptions before marriage
How to stay happily married
Open communication
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AFTERWORD: SEEKING HELP
Seeking help abroad
How do I know if they're qualified?
Referral sources
Check their credentials!
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